One of my pet peeves is when women don't give themselves enough credit for what they do. Have you ever heard someone say, "I'm just a mom"?
Moms are peacemakers. When a fight breaks out among siblings or among friends, we are there to right the wrongs, instill lessons in the importance of getting along, sharing, not hurting other people's feelings. We try not to take sides, instead choosing to stay neutral because that is what we are supposed to do.
Moms are doctors. When a child's cold seems to get worse, we are there to figure out just how bad the bug might be and whether medical intervention is necessary. Sometimes our job as a doctor requires us to be a detective as well, figuring out if the child's pain is from a tooth coming in or from an ear infection. Clues are helpful but not always provided.
Moms are cooks. We are the ones who make sure our charges are well-fed, receiving a well-balanced meal that is nutritious and delicious. We take comfort in how we can feed their tummies and also feed their souls.
Moms are teachers. We are our children's moral compass and first role models. We take great care in making sure we are on our best behavior in front of our kids because actions do speak louder than words.
We are acrobats, trying to maintain a balance for ourselves and our families. We are professional organizers, trying to keep up with appointments, sports practices, school events, birthdays and special occasions.
There's no taking off from parenthood, no vacation, no calling in sick.
There's nothing "just"about any of that.
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