Monday, July 21, 2008


The Importance of Family


We had a wonderful time on Saturday night. Jesse's cousins Johnny, Tina, Bonnie, Erik, and Julie all came over, along with Johnny & Tina's son, Tyler. Tyler and Mia spent the evening running around outside chasing the dog until it was too dark to see and they were as dirty as they could possibly be. Inside, the adults had brats, chips, dip, and lots of soda. The conversation never drags with this group. I was quickly accepted into this close group when I started dating Jesse almost nine years ago, and the night rarely ends without every laughing so hard we cry. I truly love spending time with them, because we can go from completely inane subjects to the hard, deep stuff like racism and abortion.
We don't get together nearly enough, mostly because I've been ill, and the gathering place has always been our home. With Johnny's diagnosis of cancer, it's made us all realize how precious true friendship like this is. Johnny was on his fourth course of chemo treatments this weekend. On Friday, he's given a pack that they connect to the port in his chest, and he gets the treatment the entire weekend. It means absolutely no cold food or drinks, and he feels miserable. Each treatment has been more difficult than the last, and he has eight more to go. Please include Johnny in your prayers. For him to have the strength to handle these treatments, physically and mentally; for the cancer to be gone, and for his white blood cell count to stay up, because if it's too low, they won't give him the chemo treatment until it goes back up, and he just wants this done.

Today's pic is from a party at my aunt's house last night. My cousin, Paul, just got married and visited from Washington to show off his new bride. Mia decided to try out the hula hoops. It looks like she wasn't doing too badly!

Friday, July 18, 2008


Sweatache


Mia, Doogie, and I were waiting in the van while the oil was changed, and I was talking to Doogie when Mia said, "Mommy, could you please stop talking? I have a headache, no, make that a sweatache!" She has just coined a perfect word: that headache you get from the heat when you're all sweaty is officially a sweatache!

This has been an important public service announcement. We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.

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Love as a Way of Life


Molly has been grumbling all morning. Yesterday she spent the day with a friend and in return for a later curfew agreed to put all of the laundry away. But this morning, a family friend asked her to babysit for a few hours, plus she was invited to a sleepover tonight, plus to hang out with a few friends. The poor girl. She said, "I expected a quiet weekend where Molly could just hang out and rest, but no, I have to go to parties and a sleepover and babysit." And yes, she spoke of herself in the third person. Oh, the agony of being a popular teen!

Congratulations to Pam Egge and Mary Brown! They were the winners of a copy of Love as a Way of Life. If you didn't win, pick up a copy today; it's that good!

Love as a Way of Life by Gary Chapman is a book that could literally change the world. Chapman, who is most famous for his The Five Love Languages, has years of experience counselling couples and uses this knowledge to help us improve our own relationships. He breaks down love into several categories: forgiveness, honesty, kindness, generosity, forgiveness, humility, and patience. He explains why each aspect of love is essential in showing true love in every part of our lives. Not just our marriage, but in parenting, at work, and even in the people we meet every day at the grocery store. I am truly humbled by how little love I show to other people in my life, and I'm working to make serious changes. If everyone read this book and incorporated the changes into their lives, it would change the world from home to city to country and beyond. I can't recommend this book enough.

I have a request for Dr. Chapman: please write a version of this book for teenagers! Instead of marriage, parenting, and work, do family, friends, and school. This is a book that is begging to be written. I know that I would buy copies for each of my teens!

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Thursday, July 17, 2008


Seeing the Hand of God


I read this story about baby Emma Grace in the paper last weekend. It's one of the stories where you can quite literally see the hand of God at work. Sometimes I need to read stories like this because they help me keep my faith in the midst of trouble. I've been struggling with a lot of pain this week, and so I've been feeling down. I'm not finding solace in my Bible or in my devotional reading, but when I read something as wonderful as this, it restores my faith. I know that He is at work in the world, even when I don't see it in my own corner of the universe.

Today is your last chance to win one of two copies of Gary Chapman's Love as a Way of Life. Drop me an email before midnight tonight to be entered. I'll announce the winner here tomorrow.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008


Getting better


Molly is finally getting better today, thank the Lord! Her fever was over 103 on Sunday night, so first thing Monday morning I ran her to the doctor. Her UTI had traveled all the way up to her kidneys, and that's why she was so miserable. The doctor sent her home with antibiotics and a warning that if she wasn't better in 48 hours, she would have to be admitted to the hospital. Well, we're officially past 48 hours, and the fever is staying down, and she's acting more like her normal self. Yesterday she spent most of the day snuggled in bed next to me shivering and shaking with the fever and pain. But today she and Mia are fighting over their bedroom, so I can tell that the healing has begun. Doogie's especially thrilled; it means he won't have to do her chore of laundry any more!

I got the first flyer in the mail today advertising school supplies. It seems like school just got out, but summer is already half over. But Molly's yelling that I have to take her shopping; yeah, she's feeling better.


Saturday, July 12, 2008


Gloucester Pact & a review



The news of the so-called Gloucester pregnancy pact swept the nation two weeks ago. 17 girls in this high school with a population of 1200 have become pregnant in the last year. The principal opined that the girls had made a pact with each other to become pregnant and raise the children together. Since TIME Magazine broke the original story, several of the girls have spoken out denying the claim. Last week, TIME columnist, Nancy Gibbs, write an editorial about the girls again, this form a different point of view. While we can't applaud these girls' actions in getting pregnant, we can be pleased with their decision to carry through with the pregnancies. Their generation has grown up with abortion always being an option, and yet they have opted not to. In this week's issue of TIME, two women, both who work for Pro-Choice organizations, wrote letters lambasting Gibbs for her happiness at the girls' decision to choose life.


In their literature and on their websites, Planned Parenthood and other Pro-Choice organizations all lament the amount of abortions and say that their intent is to educate girls so that the abortion rate can drop. Never has a generation been so educated about safe sex and about all of the options: abortion, adoption, and parenthood. So isn't it a bit hypocritical to attack a journalist for being glad that some girls have chosen life when you are supposed to want less abortions yourself? It's times like this that the abortion lobby's true colors show.


Hope...Joy (and a Few Thoughts) for Pregnant Teens by Rachel Brignoni: I've made no secret of the fact that I was a teenage mom, and having a son when I was 17 has colored every aspect of my life. I wish that I had had this book to read 17 years ago. Discovering you are pregnant as a teenager brings feelings of guilt, shame, and like your life is over. But Brignoni, herself a former pregnant teen, brings home to girls everywhere by reminding them that while being pregnant changes things, it isn't the end of their life. She encourages them to change their attitude and look at life with hope for the future, because if they don't have help for themselves, no one else will. She has several different exercises to invite pregnant teens to identify their strengths, weaknesses, and plans for the future, as well as make a map on how to bring those plans to fruition. My only concern about the book is that it has a little bit of The Secret type theology to it: send good thoughts out into the universe so they can return to you. Other than that, I really enjoyed reading this book. It's a quick read, but filled with a great deal of hard earned wisdom about not giving up and creating a good life for you and your child. I give the book 4-1/2 stars.


I'm starting a book contest on Monday that you won't want to miss! Come back then!

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Thursday, July 10, 2008


Good Morning America and a review


Good Morning America is starting a new feature that offers people the opportunity to say thank you to someone who has touched their lives. Today's video was amazing. Click here and click on the Meet Your Savior video. As a mother of a five-year-old girl, I couldn't help but be moved to tears. It's a wonderful idea: encouraging gratitude and appreciation as well as acts of kindness.

Wiser Than Serpents by Susan May Warren: This book is part of the Mission Russia series and kicks off with FSB (the made over KGB) agent Yanna Andrevka going deep undercover (with no back up) to rescue her sister Elena who has been kidnapped in a white slavery operation. Yanna is quickly captured as well, as was her plan, but when she's meeting the head of the slavery ring, she also encounters her long time love David Curtiss who she hasn't heard from in months because HE was deep undercover. Although their agendas are different, they end up working together, sabotaging and rescuing each other from the Twin Serpents, a crime ring involved in arms, drugs, and prostitution. Warren has a terrific grasp of Russian culture, and I always enjoy reading her books. David and Yanna's relationship is unusual in that while they both deeply love each other, David is a Christian, and Yanna isn't, so he won't allow them to pursue their feelings until she comes to trust God. An intriguing plot twist that Warren works to maximum gratification. There is lots of suspense, and Yanna's ingenuity in her escapes are terrific. More frustrating is her regular insistence in running off alone and endangering not only herself but everyone else as well. It felt a little cliched at times to me, but Warren is using this book to help shine a light on white slavery in hopes that readers will become more aware of this issue and do something to help end it. And for that, I give the book 4 stars.

A note from Susan: Did you know that there are 27 million people around the globe held as slaves today – more thank 80% of them women and children, and up to 50% minors. In fact, there are MORE slaves today than were in the time of William Wilberforce. That leaves me horrified, and it was those stats that compelled me to write a story with a human trafficking plotline. 15% of all profits from this book go to International Justice Mission! And make sure you check out Susan's website; she's giving away a few signed sets of this series!

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Christy Lockstein
Age: 33
Husband's name: Jesse
Kids' names and ages: Douglas (Doogie), age 16. Molly, age 14. Amelia (Mia) age 4.
Town of Residence: Gillett
Occupation: Pastoral Care Coordinator at local hospital/full-time mom/book reviewer
Hobbies: reading, writing, watching reality TV, eBay
Message to blog readers/what you hope to accomplish with this blog: I'm a full-time mom with several part time jobs, most of which don't pay much! I'd like to talk about the issues that affect my family and my community. I'm Christian with a conservative bent, and I'm generally not afraid to speak my mind. I'd like to share vignettes of my life along with what's bothering me and what I'm reading. I read several books a week and post reviews on my blog at www.christysbookblog.blogspot.com This blog will allow me to focus more on local and family topics.
The Importance of Family
Sweatache
Love as a Way of Life
Seeing the Hand of God
Getting better
Gloucester Pact & a review
Good Morning America and a review
Summer Temperatures & Tempers
Prayer and Trust
Pictures by Mia and a book review

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